- Helen Little
- I'm the happiest girl in the whole USA! I find joy in life whether on the mountain top or in the valley. Being alive, really alive is the greatest gift ever!
Daddy’s Little Girl Celebrates Despite A Loss
This was supposed to be my Sister Weekend. That’s when I get together with my three sisters and we live it up! We’re spread across four NFL markets; I mean four different cities around the country. We had planned to spend the weekend in Redskin territory where my youngest sister lives. But our weekend got postponed which was a bummer.
At least I got to be in the Philadelphia area to check out the Birds take on the Bolts. Mind you, my sisters and I would have watched somebody’s game. It’s not necessarily about seeing our favorite teams. It’s about watching football! With the four of us coming from Philadelphia, Charlotte, Indianapolis, and Washington; after shopping for shoes, eating, and drinking, football is one of the preferred activities. Did I mentioning shoes, food and spirits? Ok, just checking.
Thanks Pigskin Loving Lady for riding with my Philadelphia Eagles in your picks this past week. Although we suffered a 31-23 loss to San Diego, our spirits are still flying high and we won't disappoint next week! Stick with us!
I struggled a bit to come up with the right rah-rah after another disappointing loss. It helps to see that they fought to the very end. Down by 8 points, we got the ball back with less than a minute in the game and gave it our best effort. But it was too little, too late. Missed opportunities to score touchdowns in the red zone hurt like root canal. Not capitalizing on the ball on the one yard line in the first quarter clearly came back to bite us in the grass. However, I feel like at least this time we’ll come back to the east coast with our heads held higher than our last trip to the wild, wild, west.
Between the penalties and the lack of a running game we had to push harder than normal. With Brian Westbrook garnering another concussion; I’m a little worried about him for the rest of the season. He has yet to be healthy for an entire season since joining the team. Our back up backs netted less than 30 total game yards! Donovan McNabb aired it out and got a little more help this week from rookie, Jeremy Macklin. But it wasn’t enough to get the job done. However, Macklin was good for a few good fantasy points!
We’re still above water at 5-4 as we prepare for Chicago Sunday night. Donovan will be back in his hometown with something to prove to Bears fans. Since San Diego wasn’t a conference game and Dallas lost to Green Bay this week, our quest for the playoffs is still within in our grasp, being only a game behind the Cowboys. Hey, don’t get it twisted! There are seven games left and plenty of reason to believe in our ability to win a playoff berth!
Sunday was my father’s birthday. He would have been 92. It would have been a lot better for me to celebrate with an Eagles win, but I owe my love for football to him! He used to take us to football games at Livingstone College where he worked. After his Sunday sermon we’d have dinner at some church member’s house and watch the games. Some of my favorite father-daughter quality time was Monday’s spent with him, Howard Cosell, Dandy Don Meredith, and Frank Gifford. So as a total Daddy’s Girl, I dedicate this week’s blog to him!
See you on the field next week!
Helen “Love My Eagles” Little
At least I got to be in the Philadelphia area to check out the Birds take on the Bolts. Mind you, my sisters and I would have watched somebody’s game. It’s not necessarily about seeing our favorite teams. It’s about watching football! With the four of us coming from Philadelphia, Charlotte, Indianapolis, and Washington; after shopping for shoes, eating, and drinking, football is one of the preferred activities. Did I mentioning shoes, food and spirits? Ok, just checking.
Thanks Pigskin Loving Lady for riding with my Philadelphia Eagles in your picks this past week. Although we suffered a 31-23 loss to San Diego, our spirits are still flying high and we won't disappoint next week! Stick with us!
I struggled a bit to come up with the right rah-rah after another disappointing loss. It helps to see that they fought to the very end. Down by 8 points, we got the ball back with less than a minute in the game and gave it our best effort. But it was too little, too late. Missed opportunities to score touchdowns in the red zone hurt like root canal. Not capitalizing on the ball on the one yard line in the first quarter clearly came back to bite us in the grass. However, I feel like at least this time we’ll come back to the east coast with our heads held higher than our last trip to the wild, wild, west.
Between the penalties and the lack of a running game we had to push harder than normal. With Brian Westbrook garnering another concussion; I’m a little worried about him for the rest of the season. He has yet to be healthy for an entire season since joining the team. Our back up backs netted less than 30 total game yards! Donovan McNabb aired it out and got a little more help this week from rookie, Jeremy Macklin. But it wasn’t enough to get the job done. However, Macklin was good for a few good fantasy points!
We’re still above water at 5-4 as we prepare for Chicago Sunday night. Donovan will be back in his hometown with something to prove to Bears fans. Since San Diego wasn’t a conference game and Dallas lost to Green Bay this week, our quest for the playoffs is still within in our grasp, being only a game behind the Cowboys. Hey, don’t get it twisted! There are seven games left and plenty of reason to believe in our ability to win a playoff berth!
Sunday was my father’s birthday. He would have been 92. It would have been a lot better for me to celebrate with an Eagles win, but I owe my love for football to him! He used to take us to football games at Livingstone College where he worked. After his Sunday sermon we’d have dinner at some church member’s house and watch the games. Some of my favorite father-daughter quality time was Monday’s spent with him, Howard Cosell, Dandy Don Meredith, and Frank Gifford. So as a total Daddy’s Girl, I dedicate this week’s blog to him!
See you on the field next week!
Helen “Love My Eagles” Little
Eagles vs Cowboys
I’m stumbling over words this morning as I attempt to make a sentence during my radio show. I’m a bit fatigued after the Sunday night game between Philadelphia and Dallas went so late and of course I stayed until the bitter end. No pun intended as it was bitter. This was the battle for bragging rights atop the NFC East standings and this morning I don’t have much to brag about.
The evening started out on a high note as I got inside the stadium early to watch the pre-game warm-ups from the sideline. Spirits were high with my Birds and I felt a re-beat, yes, re-beat coming on from the stomping we administered the last time the Cows were in our pasture. Oops…typo, I meant Cowboys.
I made my way up to the press box just before kick-off and the room was electric as reporters, writers, and various other sportos were chatting, chowing, and checking out the start of the game. The Cowboys won the toss and elected to receive. Strange move I thought and it had a distinct advantage for the Eagles at the beginning of the second half. But it wouldn’t be enough to garner the outcome we needed.
Neither team seemed to be playing outright great ball last night. It was a low scoring, high yellow flag flying game. But it was the red flags that became the problem. Andy, I love you but keep it in your pocket unless you are 5000% sure that you are going to win. I suggest that you replace it with a nice Eagle green hankie that you can throw as much as you like. With two failed challenges in the second half we blew two time outs and were left standing there at the end of the game holding our…picks.
To add a little insult to injury, my Fantasy team that I had so proudly worked my way into third place from the bottom of the heap, had five Eagles players who gave me next to no points. So let’s see; a loss to Dallas, a night with only four hours sleep, and a lousy showing for my Fantasy team, now that made for great fun! Not so much.
I’m not a fan of loosing, especially when victory is right there in our grasp. Third down conversions were like finding a cheap apartment in Manhattan. It happens, just not that often. Then interceptions, lost challenges, silly penalties of false starts, holding, unsportsmanlike conduct, and unnecessary roughness were ways in which we managed to beat ourselves. A penalty robbed Ellis Hobbs of a touchdown from a third quarter kickoff return.
At one point momentum was leaning hard on us. David Akers showed his strength with some key field goals that helped keep us in the game including one from 52 yards out. Donovan McNabb connected with tight end Brent Celek and we took the lead 13-10. But for the six he put in Celek’s hands, we put ten in Dallas’ hands with turnovers turned points.
Final score, Dallas 20 Philadelphia 16.
Exhale.
Next week we’re back on the west coast. Going back to Cali? I don’t think so; at least not like we did when we went to Oakland. San Diego will be an entirely different challenge and we need to be up for it. Phillip is feeling himself like David after taking down the Giants and Eli who is the reason he’s got a year around tan in sunny southern California. Oh, you don’t remember when Eli pitched a hissy fit and pouted about being drafted by San Diego? Yep. So now that the Chargers have the taste of NFC blood on their tongues, they’ll be looking for us to have jet lag again.
But don’t count on it Bolts! Eagles don’t stay down long. And there’s nothing tastier than beating someone who just beat someone we beat also! Until then, let’s sing the fight song together.
Fly Eagles fly, on the road to victory! We’re still in the race at five and three!
Ok, that’s not the lyrics to the real fight song. But it works!
Fly proudly this week my feathered friends!
Helen “Love My Eagles” Little
LittleMediaInc@gmail.com
The evening started out on a high note as I got inside the stadium early to watch the pre-game warm-ups from the sideline. Spirits were high with my Birds and I felt a re-beat, yes, re-beat coming on from the stomping we administered the last time the Cows were in our pasture. Oops…typo, I meant Cowboys.
I made my way up to the press box just before kick-off and the room was electric as reporters, writers, and various other sportos were chatting, chowing, and checking out the start of the game. The Cowboys won the toss and elected to receive. Strange move I thought and it had a distinct advantage for the Eagles at the beginning of the second half. But it wouldn’t be enough to garner the outcome we needed.
Neither team seemed to be playing outright great ball last night. It was a low scoring, high yellow flag flying game. But it was the red flags that became the problem. Andy, I love you but keep it in your pocket unless you are 5000% sure that you are going to win. I suggest that you replace it with a nice Eagle green hankie that you can throw as much as you like. With two failed challenges in the second half we blew two time outs and were left standing there at the end of the game holding our…picks.
To add a little insult to injury, my Fantasy team that I had so proudly worked my way into third place from the bottom of the heap, had five Eagles players who gave me next to no points. So let’s see; a loss to Dallas, a night with only four hours sleep, and a lousy showing for my Fantasy team, now that made for great fun! Not so much.
I’m not a fan of loosing, especially when victory is right there in our grasp. Third down conversions were like finding a cheap apartment in Manhattan. It happens, just not that often. Then interceptions, lost challenges, silly penalties of false starts, holding, unsportsmanlike conduct, and unnecessary roughness were ways in which we managed to beat ourselves. A penalty robbed Ellis Hobbs of a touchdown from a third quarter kickoff return.
At one point momentum was leaning hard on us. David Akers showed his strength with some key field goals that helped keep us in the game including one from 52 yards out. Donovan McNabb connected with tight end Brent Celek and we took the lead 13-10. But for the six he put in Celek’s hands, we put ten in Dallas’ hands with turnovers turned points.
Final score, Dallas 20 Philadelphia 16.
Exhale.
Next week we’re back on the west coast. Going back to Cali? I don’t think so; at least not like we did when we went to Oakland. San Diego will be an entirely different challenge and we need to be up for it. Phillip is feeling himself like David after taking down the Giants and Eli who is the reason he’s got a year around tan in sunny southern California. Oh, you don’t remember when Eli pitched a hissy fit and pouted about being drafted by San Diego? Yep. So now that the Chargers have the taste of NFC blood on their tongues, they’ll be looking for us to have jet lag again.
But don’t count on it Bolts! Eagles don’t stay down long. And there’s nothing tastier than beating someone who just beat someone we beat also! Until then, let’s sing the fight song together.
Fly Eagles fly, on the road to victory! We’re still in the race at five and three!
Ok, that’s not the lyrics to the real fight song. But it works!
Fly proudly this week my feathered friends!
Helen “Love My Eagles” Little
LittleMediaInc@gmail.com
What's Your Spentality?
Have you taken the time lately to assess your spentality? Oh, you aren’t familiar with the word spentality? That would make sense since I made it up. But if you were to reference it in the Helenictionary you would find it defined as one’s mentality toward spending.
A few years back I recall a conversation I had with my younger sister about acquiring stuff. We like stuff. We have both been guilty of buying a lot of stuff. We concluded that it stemmed from the frugality of our parents and our freedom as adults to buy the stuff we desired if we wanted to. In that conversation I confessed to being an over-consumer and just buying stuff because I could. By the end of the conversation we kind of agreed that we could improve ourselves in this area and then hung up the phone. She proceeded to spend less of her money on stuff and more of her husband’s money! LOL…I’m just kidding about that. But we both saw that during a time of great prosperity that we could spend less on stuff. We didn’t want to be like so many others who just spent money on stuff because they think they need it or because they saw someone else with it, or because everyone should have whatever the stuff in consideration was. We purposely decided to alter our spentalities. Then along came the recession and we found ourselves in a much better position of preparedness.
I’ve never been one to boldly live outside of my means. Although I’ve had my paycheck to paycheck moments in my early adulthood, it took a village to raise my credit score by living with relatives or borrowing from Mom while I pursued my low paying career dream to be on the radio. I had the benefit of parents who showed us that true riches have little to do with money. I actually thought we were rich when I was a kid. Little did I know that they were pinching ever penny, scrutinizing every dime, and doing a lot of things to cut expenses in order to maintain a household and family with six children. They were far from flashy. Practical is an understatement! I had no appreciation at the time for their wise ways like growing our own fruits and vegetables. We learned to build things and do things for ourselves so we didn’t necessarily have to pay someone else to do it. For example, my Father built our house from the ground up. And no he wasn’t a contractor or a builder. He was a minister and a theologian. It was more cost effective for him to do it himself and he possessed the knowledge to do so.
We rarely had anything in excess but always had more than we needed. My parent’s spentality was quite calculating. If you could sell your need or desire and they had the funds for it, we’d usually get a green light as long as grades, chores, and behavior were up to par. Our dreams were financed but our whims were chided. I had great role models for developing a prudent spentality. And that has helped me to go a very long way on very little.
I never like spending more than necessary or spending for something I did not have to. Close friends call me cheapskate at times because I’m a bargain hunter until the day I die. But I’d rather spend money on something that’s going to give me a return on my money than a designer bag that I’ll get bored with and throw in the back of my closet. Yes, throw. But the truth is I first started practicing a thrifty spentality out of fear; a fear of not being able to sustain myself. That kind of thinking will only attract what it is that you do not want. Fear was not a good reason for me to live a cost effective way of life.
There were bumps along the way like trial and error and sinkholes in my road to success to finally get it through my head that I needed to be in the driver seat of my financial destiny. I didn’t want to know about money, think about money, or learn about money; I just wanted to spend it. Here, you take it and make it grow and just let me know what you did. Bad idea. Nobody will take care of your finances like you do. And if you do have a pinch hitter who is going to help you to build wealth, make sure you are fully engaged and involved every step of the way. I had this notion that one day Prince Charming would come into my life and do all of that stuff for me. Much like my Father did for my Mother. When he died she didn’t have a clue about money yet had to make all the financial decisions from that point forward.
So learn all you can learn. Trust me, if I can figure it out so can you. It’s not that hard to have a basic clue. I’m not talking about buying futures, or puts and calls but I am talking about knowing the interest rates and terms of the credit cards in your wallet. Look at your paycheck. Do you know what each line, each deduction, each item on it is? What about your mortgage, do you know your interest rate, how much you escrow in taxes and insurance each month. For anything that you make payments on do you know how much you will pay for it by the time you paid everything off? Do you have any investments other than your home? Is that insurance policy term or whole life? What’s your fico score? How is it determined and how can you improve it or damage it? That beloved car that you bought last year, what’s it worth today? These are just some basic questions that having the answers to could help advance your spentality.
You may also want to create a spending filter. You know, for the stuff you feel like you have got to have! Many of my girlfriends have these fabulously awesome designer bags. Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Balenciaga, Fendi, and Channel are in their closets and they didn’t get them from Canal Street bootleggers. But out of all of those women, I’d be willing to bet that only ten percent of them can keep the amount of money it cost to buy that bag in that bag at all times. For a girl like me I find that hard to understand.
The filter can apply to cars. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a sucker for a nice car. At one point I had three. Two of them I had the title for but number three came with a monthly payment of $1200! It wasn’t until I started to look for a studio apartment in Manhattan that I realized “Hey, the price of that uptown studio is the same as my car!” Except my car was quickly depreciating in value and an apartment would most likely appreciate. Thus began a new filter.
Now that the economy is the drama de jour, so many people are finding themselves being weaned off stuff and in retail rehab. Their spentality is being changed by default, literally. To hear that so many people had no idea that their house payment would increase because they had an interest only mortgage or a balloon mortgage kind of mystifies me. I get it because that could have easily been me under certain circumstances. However, I know that if I have only ten dollars I couldn’t afford a million dollar home. But more than anything I knew I didn’t need a million dollar home, and yes the mortgage broker told me each time, “You know you qualify for a much bigger house!” No thanks dude, the one I picked out is enough.
I’ve always look at the word need very literally. A need is air, or water, or food, or shelter, or clothing; I even consider love a need. I don’t need an iPod although I can’t imagine how I’d do without mine now, but it’s a want. As is most of the “stuff” we are quick to say we need. It doesn’t help that it’s in our face all day; the new and improved, the latest, the super version, the convenient, the coveted, and the thing that everybody has or is doing. If you can afford for your dog to get pampered with a massage at the pet spa, then buy all means go for it. But if you’re paying your rent late because all of your friends’ dogs get a hot stone treatment and you feel like yours should too, then you need to seriously work on your spentality!
I’m so saddened by what I’ve seen transpire in our communities with people losing their jobs and losing their homes that this is sort of a plea. It may not be you that may have to reassess your spentality but you may know someone else who does. Having more stuff than we can afford is never worth the part that comes with having to pay the piper. Save. Invest. Tithe. You may find a bargain on a better quality of life.
A few years back I recall a conversation I had with my younger sister about acquiring stuff. We like stuff. We have both been guilty of buying a lot of stuff. We concluded that it stemmed from the frugality of our parents and our freedom as adults to buy the stuff we desired if we wanted to. In that conversation I confessed to being an over-consumer and just buying stuff because I could. By the end of the conversation we kind of agreed that we could improve ourselves in this area and then hung up the phone. She proceeded to spend less of her money on stuff and more of her husband’s money! LOL…I’m just kidding about that. But we both saw that during a time of great prosperity that we could spend less on stuff. We didn’t want to be like so many others who just spent money on stuff because they think they need it or because they saw someone else with it, or because everyone should have whatever the stuff in consideration was. We purposely decided to alter our spentalities. Then along came the recession and we found ourselves in a much better position of preparedness.
I’ve never been one to boldly live outside of my means. Although I’ve had my paycheck to paycheck moments in my early adulthood, it took a village to raise my credit score by living with relatives or borrowing from Mom while I pursued my low paying career dream to be on the radio. I had the benefit of parents who showed us that true riches have little to do with money. I actually thought we were rich when I was a kid. Little did I know that they were pinching ever penny, scrutinizing every dime, and doing a lot of things to cut expenses in order to maintain a household and family with six children. They were far from flashy. Practical is an understatement! I had no appreciation at the time for their wise ways like growing our own fruits and vegetables. We learned to build things and do things for ourselves so we didn’t necessarily have to pay someone else to do it. For example, my Father built our house from the ground up. And no he wasn’t a contractor or a builder. He was a minister and a theologian. It was more cost effective for him to do it himself and he possessed the knowledge to do so.
We rarely had anything in excess but always had more than we needed. My parent’s spentality was quite calculating. If you could sell your need or desire and they had the funds for it, we’d usually get a green light as long as grades, chores, and behavior were up to par. Our dreams were financed but our whims were chided. I had great role models for developing a prudent spentality. And that has helped me to go a very long way on very little.
I never like spending more than necessary or spending for something I did not have to. Close friends call me cheapskate at times because I’m a bargain hunter until the day I die. But I’d rather spend money on something that’s going to give me a return on my money than a designer bag that I’ll get bored with and throw in the back of my closet. Yes, throw. But the truth is I first started practicing a thrifty spentality out of fear; a fear of not being able to sustain myself. That kind of thinking will only attract what it is that you do not want. Fear was not a good reason for me to live a cost effective way of life.
There were bumps along the way like trial and error and sinkholes in my road to success to finally get it through my head that I needed to be in the driver seat of my financial destiny. I didn’t want to know about money, think about money, or learn about money; I just wanted to spend it. Here, you take it and make it grow and just let me know what you did. Bad idea. Nobody will take care of your finances like you do. And if you do have a pinch hitter who is going to help you to build wealth, make sure you are fully engaged and involved every step of the way. I had this notion that one day Prince Charming would come into my life and do all of that stuff for me. Much like my Father did for my Mother. When he died she didn’t have a clue about money yet had to make all the financial decisions from that point forward.
So learn all you can learn. Trust me, if I can figure it out so can you. It’s not that hard to have a basic clue. I’m not talking about buying futures, or puts and calls but I am talking about knowing the interest rates and terms of the credit cards in your wallet. Look at your paycheck. Do you know what each line, each deduction, each item on it is? What about your mortgage, do you know your interest rate, how much you escrow in taxes and insurance each month. For anything that you make payments on do you know how much you will pay for it by the time you paid everything off? Do you have any investments other than your home? Is that insurance policy term or whole life? What’s your fico score? How is it determined and how can you improve it or damage it? That beloved car that you bought last year, what’s it worth today? These are just some basic questions that having the answers to could help advance your spentality.
You may also want to create a spending filter. You know, for the stuff you feel like you have got to have! Many of my girlfriends have these fabulously awesome designer bags. Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Balenciaga, Fendi, and Channel are in their closets and they didn’t get them from Canal Street bootleggers. But out of all of those women, I’d be willing to bet that only ten percent of them can keep the amount of money it cost to buy that bag in that bag at all times. For a girl like me I find that hard to understand.
The filter can apply to cars. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a sucker for a nice car. At one point I had three. Two of them I had the title for but number three came with a monthly payment of $1200! It wasn’t until I started to look for a studio apartment in Manhattan that I realized “Hey, the price of that uptown studio is the same as my car!” Except my car was quickly depreciating in value and an apartment would most likely appreciate. Thus began a new filter.
Now that the economy is the drama de jour, so many people are finding themselves being weaned off stuff and in retail rehab. Their spentality is being changed by default, literally. To hear that so many people had no idea that their house payment would increase because they had an interest only mortgage or a balloon mortgage kind of mystifies me. I get it because that could have easily been me under certain circumstances. However, I know that if I have only ten dollars I couldn’t afford a million dollar home. But more than anything I knew I didn’t need a million dollar home, and yes the mortgage broker told me each time, “You know you qualify for a much bigger house!” No thanks dude, the one I picked out is enough.
I’ve always look at the word need very literally. A need is air, or water, or food, or shelter, or clothing; I even consider love a need. I don’t need an iPod although I can’t imagine how I’d do without mine now, but it’s a want. As is most of the “stuff” we are quick to say we need. It doesn’t help that it’s in our face all day; the new and improved, the latest, the super version, the convenient, the coveted, and the thing that everybody has or is doing. If you can afford for your dog to get pampered with a massage at the pet spa, then buy all means go for it. But if you’re paying your rent late because all of your friends’ dogs get a hot stone treatment and you feel like yours should too, then you need to seriously work on your spentality!
I’m so saddened by what I’ve seen transpire in our communities with people losing their jobs and losing their homes that this is sort of a plea. It may not be you that may have to reassess your spentality but you may know someone else who does. Having more stuff than we can afford is never worth the part that comes with having to pay the piper. Save. Invest. Tithe. You may find a bargain on a better quality of life.
http://thembisamshaka.com/2009/06/17/sister-swans-helen-little/
SISTER SWANS
By Thembisa Mshaka
Helen Little
Midday Personality
106.7 Lite FM – WLTW
1. What are you working on right now?
I’ve been blessed to expand my broadcast territory and I’m now on over 20 other stations across the country. I can be heard on the weekends in various markets and via the iPhone with the iHeart radio application on the soft rock channel. I’m also working on turning writing into an additional career. And my newest interest is in real estate investing.
2. What book(s) are you reading?
Tax Wise Business Ownership by Toby Mathias, Zero Debt by Lynette Khalfani-Cox , The Bible
3. Share something you do for work that’s harder than it looks.
My work isn’t really hard at all. And when you love what you do even the stuff that is hard, isn’t as hard. Probably one of the biggest challenges is explaining to listeners how the music is picked and programmed on the radio station. Many people still thing that the person they hear on the microphone is the one that picks the music and most often it isn’t.
4. Describe a moment of sweet vindication.
I’m motivated by people who think I’m not capable. I love being told I “can’t” do something. Early in my career a consultant at the station where I was working told me in our first meeting, “I don’t know why the PD hired you. You don’t sound like nothing.” Instead of correcting him and saying “No, it should be you don’t sound like anything,” I just worked hard and prove him wrong. Many years later I was working in New York and I got to pull the feathers from his mouth.
It was also said to me when I was working in Dallas TX, “What makes you think you can get a job in New York? Everyone wants to be in New York.” Well, actually I didn’t because I didn’t like snow. But I’m still here and they aren’t. And I still don’t like snow!
5. What’s the most dangerous aspect of the waters you navigate?
I’m very opinionated so keeping it to myself at times is important. Also, having a clear understanding of the business of radio as it is TODAY. It’s so easy to fall into the trap of old thinking. But the reality is that it’s a new world and the consumer has dramatically changed since the onset of my career.
6. Name two places you call home.
Bucks County Pennsylvania and North Carolina.
7. Who are your influences?
My parents and my siblings. I had great examples at home.
8. What is your favorite creative food?
Learning! Yummy! I swallow it whole! I love learning something new and can get a little greedy with it at times. I’m stuffing myself with knowledge on real estate investing. It’s deliciously fascinating. Also writing. I love words. Aside from being tasty they can say so much it you know how to use them and take advantage of the vast variety of them we have. I also like fried chicken and watermelon. LOL!
9. What is your guilty pleasure?
Real estate, people watching and making up their stories while observing them, driving very fast,my little patio garden of fresh vegetables, and SMILEY FACES! OMG I love them!!!!!!!!
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www.1067LiteFM.com/pages/onair/helenlittle.html
www.helenrlittle.blogspot.com/
www.linkedin.com/in/helenrlittle
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Helen-Little/56327204685?sid=8a6ba81708e38be26953593bf1e259c2&ref=search
A Happier Mother's Day!
I was asked by a younger family member whose Mother recently passed how to spend Mother’s Day. I replied by saying spend it with other people and their Mother or spend it alone depending on what makes you feel at peace. After thinking about it I realized that I needed to swallow my own pill. So I spent Mother’s Day doing some of the things my Mother loved to do. Yes, I was invited to share the day with others but I didn’t want the reminder that I was a bench warmer and could only be a spectator from the sideline. So I politely declined and had the most wonderful glorious time both honoring and remembering my Mother!
It was a beautiful Pennsylvania morning, quite different from a New York or a North Carolina morning, and I made coffee and sipped it on the back deck looking out at the trees whose leaves have returned in full. My Mother loved her coffee. I used to ask her why she drank it for as a child I didn’t quite understand the attraction to the bitter taste. How things have changed! When it comes to coffee, I have become my Mother!
Mom also loved to be outside. It was there she taught us so many of the world’s wonders. After finishing my coffee I decided to take a long walk and revisit the Little Lessons on nature that my Mother taught us. I noted the different trees like the long leaf pine, the birch, and the dogwood trees both pink and white. I remembered the folklore she told us of the dogwood and why it no longer grows to be a tall and sprawling tree as well as the story hidden in its beautiful flower. She loved flowers. They lined the sidewalk that lead to the front steps of the home I grew up in and mirrored the flower bed in front of the big picture window filled with buttercups and snap dragons.
Perched in the trees and accompanying me along the way were the robin and the sparrow that she taught us how to identify and of course her and my favorite fellow in red, the cardinal. Not only did she teach us what they looked like she would point out what they sounded like including the haunting whippoorwill and the nocturnal owl.
Momma liked the country and the quiet that usually comes as a part of the package. But then again, having six kids may have had something to do with the desire for peace and quiet. And whereas I was an eager participant in the mini science lectures that included geography, biology, and astronomy, it was our chemistry that would often be opposites like protons and electrons. She would say left and I would want to go right. The fullness of life in a ranch house in Salisbury, North Carolina was enough for her. Not me though, I had to escape and find the biggest, the brightest, and the loudest place I could find. Her preferred stage was not nearly big enough for my imagination which she encouraged me to have and the bigger the better. Now I do my best to mimic the serenity of Salisbury with Serenity House in Yardley, Pennsylvania.
My Mother was also quick to be found reading and writing. So this is my writing part and I read one of the most memorable passages that she would recite to us from her favorite book, The Holy Bible. “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight O LORD, my Strength and my Redeemer.” It’s from the book of Psalms (19:14) and was one of the many scriptures she used to teach us growth and character. She would also recite poetry to us and Paul Lawrence Dunbar was a mutual favorite. “Little brown baby wif sparklin’ eyes, come to yo’ pappy an’ set on his knee.” I can still hear her deliver it with such wondrous expression as if she were channeling the poet himself.
But the one thing that my Mother loved and shared with me in our own unique way was painting and drawing. She was gifted with the brush and even painted me as a child. She called me Pocahontas, her little Indian princess and created a likeness on canvas of me with two long braids on the side of my head, no headband though! She wanted more than anything for me to pursue this talent and to utilize this gift as I inherited her ability to almost photograph with a pencil, pastel, or paint brush. She wanted me to pursue art as a career and would remind me that I was born on Norman Rockwell’s birthday.
My passion was music so I went off chasing another art form. She thought it was cool that I was on the radio and always supported whatever I chose to do but she wanted so much for me to be an artist as it is a rare gift. I never will forget when I called to tell her that I got the job as the Program Director at a radio station in New York City. I was on a three way call with my younger sister and I was so excited to tell her, “Ma, I just got a job as the program director in the number one market!” And she said to me, “Oh, so you are a secretary now! That’s nice.” Needless to say I never lived that one down with my sister and I probably would have enjoyed being a secretary more!
Although it was my intent to paint or draw today, I didn’t. I’ve always and still struggle with being intimidated by this talent so I opted to express my artistic vision with the lens and not the brush. And the one thing I can say most about my mother aside from being kind, loving, generous, beautiful, brilliant, talented, funny, encouraging, strong, supportive, and patient; she was very understanding. So perhaps next Mother’s Day I’ll use paint instead of the pen and put my day on canvas. Happy Mother’s Day, Mommy!
Be Numb to Dumb!
Don't let petty stuff bother you. Become numb to the dumb stuff and don't let it penetrate your spirit.
Negativity?
Dumb.
Gossip?
Dumb.
Jealousy?
Dumb.
Pettiness?
Dumb.
But then again so is self doubt and a lack of confidence. Why wouldn't you be your biggest champion and support? Numb it when that nagging negative inner critic tries to convince you that you are less than the star you are intended to be! When you tell your self negative message who needs others! That's less work for them!
Numb the dumb both internally and externally. Focus on choosing to feel the good in your life. After all, it is your choice!
Negativity?
Dumb.
Gossip?
Dumb.
Jealousy?
Dumb.
Pettiness?
Dumb.
But then again so is self doubt and a lack of confidence. Why wouldn't you be your biggest champion and support? Numb it when that nagging negative inner critic tries to convince you that you are less than the star you are intended to be! When you tell your self negative message who needs others! That's less work for them!
Numb the dumb both internally and externally. Focus on choosing to feel the good in your life. After all, it is your choice!
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